Since my parents were here, I have changed (a little) how I do things. Especially in regards to my kitchen. I had always, as far back as I can remember, had the "out of MY kitchen while I'm cooking dinner" rule. But after seeing how much the kids enjoyed helping Grandma out in the kitchen, and, well, rethinking the whole thing, I have changed my mind (a little).

After all, the rule started because at dinner time I was tired and hungry and the kids were tired and hungry. When I am tired and hungry, I especially like my space, and I zone out on the kids and focus on the work that I'm doing. When the kids are tired and hungry they come whining to me, or when I don't allow that, they start picking on each other. Now, after the good example set to me, I TRY to book more time to make my meals (as well as double the meals for the freezer so that I have a day off next time around) so that I can relax (a little) and focus on a more family friendly approach to cooking. Having a bite to eat before starting helps (a little) to eliminate the hungry part from my scenario too. And, what do you know! The kids are happier too (a little), since they get to have me when they're tired and hungry. If everything works out, that is. Right now the idea is new, so it is all (a little) too ideal, and will be sure to deteriorate (a little).

We're still all (a little) sick, with runny noses and coughs, and more easily tired than usual. Hopefully the kids don't sneeze too much in the food while they're helping, and don't spread the cold round to others. But then again, who else will be eating the food that isn't already exposed?