Nathan told me about an insect he saw caught in a spider web:
"Mommy, I saw a moth stuck in a spider web over there." (points) "And I saved it!"
My first response was: "Now the poor spider is going to be hungry!"
(You can tell how thoughtful and insightful I am lately!)
"But the butterfly didn't want to die!" says Nathan.
"You're right, I'm sure it is glad that you saved it!" I hastily added!
I had a cool shower once during a hot afternoon, and during it I heard a lot of crying. I cut it as short as I could, and I could hear Daniel crying while I hastily (but not too hastily lest I get sweaty again, and defeat the purpose of the shower) dried and dressed myself. I also could hear Nathan trying to comfort him. Before I was out, Daniel was settled down. I opened the door to see Nathan sitting cross legged beside Daniel, rubbing his back, and talking gently with him.
(I wonder, did any of my big brothers do this for me?) Nathan then told me the story of how one of his siblings had pushed Daniel down while he was climbing a bookshelf, and how Nathan grabbed Daniel by the head and how he got Daniel his teddy and sat with him and rubbed his back.
I cautioned against grabbing heads (even during rescue attempts!) and also thanked him for the care he took of his brother!
Nathan was given a hammer for his birthday, and hasn't used it much. But since there were so many trim ends laying around from the playset construction, he decided to use them to build things. He had became frustrated when Daniel kept breaking what he had been making, so I suggested he hammer it and make it permanent--and thus, indestructible.
He originally had made a shed to park dump trucks and tractors in, but during the process of making it sturdy and "hammer-able", it has transformed into a box, to build sand castles in. It's been a work of a few weeks, and last time I checked, needed only one more piece of wood and another nail or two.